Preciousness of Life
"Preciousness of Life's Virtues"

by Joyce Manalo

 

Life is precious because:

As we are born in this world we bring along with us three beautiful things:

    1. Grace of the Buddha
      A reward or pleasant situation that comes from the law correctly.
    2. Buddha Nature
      Our character, well roundedness, integrity and goodness
    3. Practice
      The ability to follow the Bodhisattva way of life or in other words
      The ability or effort of sharing/giving without expectations for the happiness of others.

These three items form Virtues/ “Toku” (Japanese). Virtue means excellence, righteousness, effective force or power or a particular effective goodness or beneficial quality.

Based on our past life, our karma*, both good and bad and the deeds of our ancestors determine our container size, shape and condition. The structure/substance that forms our container is deeply dependent on these very two important factors. Since we are not aware of what our past life was like or the deeds of ourselves and ancestor, we can not easily determine what our container looks like, how deep or big it is or what the condition of it is, we often go thru life suffering and not being able to improve ourselves. Thus we are transporting ourselves in a weakened/faltering container from life to life. Not knowing where to improve will hinder us from enhancing this precious container.
*Karma-- (total effect of a person’s action and conduct during the successive phases of existence, held to determine destiny in Buddhism)

The Grace of the Buddha gives us a chance to come in contact with the Lotus Sutra, the great harmony and learn of the Buddha’s compassion, wisdom and guidance. This great situation comes directly from the universal law and life force. This chance/encounter gives us the ability to perfect our character or Buddha nature thru the Practice, the ability to help others in order to help you, help yourself, by being able to practice the teachings we are able to earn good virtues and cleanse our karma. By practicing Ancestral veneration (praying for our ancestors to show our appreciation for their life and sacrifices), coming to toban (church duty day), attending hoza (circle of sharing and learning), tedori (home/member visitation to help others) we are able to learn more and more about our own selves and where we need to improve to increase our virtues. People who have virtue are able to receive Buddha’s positive energy, while people who do not, cannot continue good deeds and will not be able to expand/improve their container. The Buddha gives us such tools as Birth Star Analysis (9 stars analysis), Name Character analysis and the Sangha of the church to help understand or focus on what our structural damage maybe and thus resulting from our practice to correct or improve this damage, we are able to enhance/widen/deepen our container to be better and stronger for the next life.

We should strive to acquire as many virtues as possible since the acquisition of virtues not only broadens our horizons, but also advances us on the path to the attainment of Buddha hood and helps us to live life in great harmony with each other. (2)The list of virtues we should aspire to are patience, wisdom, courage, moderation, justice, courtesy, discernment, faith, kindness, honesty and a sense of responsibility.
(2) Taken from the book: Modern Mediation, A Buddhist Sampler, by Nichiko Niwano, pg 46.

I am a second-generation Rissho Kosei-kai member, my mother joined because of my sister’s asthma. Rissho Kosei-kai became our family religion and I would often help my mother in picking up senior members and taking them to services, toban or other church activities. I did not really have a major problem that made me come to this church, so I was a member that helped, but really did not know why I was coming to church. I often believed that by coming to church I would have good luck in life and be protected. While coming to church with my mother, JoAnn Ozaki became a friend and she often encouraged me to come to church to participate in activities with her sisters and the other youth members. She was practicing the bodhisattva way of life, helping others.


It was the Grace of the Buddha (the Buddha blessing/giving me a chance to come). I came to church, but still felt that I really didn’t have any problems. Of course there were many ups and downs, but I always thought I could take care of myself and of course as time went on, I often felt that I did not have anymore good luck, it was getting harder and harder to overcome even the smallest of problems, I got angry faster, always controlling my family, had no patience and often seemed irritable. My Character was a negative thing and because of my actions/deeds more cracks damaged my container, causing what little virtues I had to escape or leak out. Thru the years, my mother and JoAnn always kept me coming to church, as I strayed they would pull harder to get me to come closer. Rev, Mae, Charlotte, Suesan, Donna, Karen, the Nakashimas and many more of the members of our church always encouraged me and never gave up on me. They were all practicing!


Thru the lectures and studies I slowly began to understand that this world is really not about good or bad luck, but about how to live harmoniously with everything around us and thru the Buddha’s guidance and compassion, we are given a chance to improve ourselves and the container in which we travel with from life to life. My family and group members started monthly ancestor veneration services; we came to toban and hozas, learned things about our birth star and name characteristic. These tools helped us to understand family, and ourselves and helped me to improve my patience at work, home and in the community. This also made our district group stronger and closer, we were able to share in each other’s hardship and learn and appreciate what Buddha is trying to teach us. Even my husband often helps. I could learn to see his good Buddha nature too. Thru these practices, I became happier and my family became happier. I know that there will be more ups and downs ahead of us, but now I know that it is not good or bad luck, but it is the blessing and the compassion of the Buddha to remind us all of why Life is so preciousness, we are not born by chance or by luck, life is precious because we have a debt of gratitude, we have a cause or mission to fulfill and we are traveling in a container made of virtues. Together with these three things and the compassion of the Buddha, we cannot take life for granted.

 

 

 

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